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SOCIAL TRAINING FOR

THOUGHTFUL INTROVERTS

Learn to become deeply attractive even if you're the least social person on earth.

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"This isn't the life I wanted..."

On paper, I was the most successful I'd ever been in my life.

I'd quit a job working with Fortune 500 brands to work for a longtime idol of mine. I was living in one of the hottest up and coming cities in the US.

And I was tired of living.

I felt like death would hurt less than continuing to force a smile while I trudged forward. All I wanted to do was disappear into the desert and fade away.

My life felt empty. I was painfully lonely and didn't know what to do about it. Despite my success, it felt like I had nothing. I wanted love. I wanted connection. Romance. Good solid friendships and adventure. But despite my best efforts for 15 years, I couldn't crack the code.

Looking back, I was shockingly oblivious to the one thing that ended up getting me exactly what I wanted.

Having meaningful conversations with total strangers, without needing to prepare ahead of time.

Waking up and finding my phone had been flooded overnight with naughty texts from women who wouldn't have found me attractive at all a few months earlier.

The ability to easily bring in new business without needing to convince, persuade, or be pushy.

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TESTIMONIALS

IN ONE DAY, HE HELPED ME GET CLEAR ON HOW I WAS GETTING IN MY OWN WAY WITH WOMEN, GET MORE DATES, AND GET CLARITY AROUND HOW I WANT TO PROGRESS IN MY CAREER."

WARREN M. / EBEN PAGAN TRAINING / AUSTIN, TX

“ROB IS A JEDI MASTER OF TEACHING AND MODELING AUTHENTICITY AND DATING. MY OVERALL EXPERIENCE HAS QUITE LITERALLY BEEN LIFE-ALTERING"

SCOTT P. / COMMERCIAL DRIVER / BUFFALO, NY

“WHAT I REALLY GOT OUT OF MY EXPERIENCE WITH ROB IS PEACE OF MIND, TRUST IN MYSELF, AND MY CONFIDENCE BACK"

ADRIAN B. / PERSONAL TRAINER / ORANGE COUNTY, CA

Here's the secret to charisma.

It's all based on a little known psychological phenomenon called affective presence (AP).

Most folks will naturally belong in one of three categories of AP.

First, Negative AP. Unbeknownst to them, the folks they interact with often leave feeling worse about themselves or the world. Inconsiderate people sometimes refer to folks with Negative AP as energy vampires, and very few have the courtesy to tell these people what they're doing wrong. Over time, Negative AP individuals will gradually lose friends and connections or stop being invited to things without realizing why. They will unconsciously begin to stop putting themselves out on a limb or talking about what they're experiencing. Negative AP is often an empty, isolated experience, comprised of unexpected loss.
 

Second, Neutral AP. These folks are generally agreeable, but don't make strong emotional impacts. They are often very polite, usually on time, and tend to be extremely logical. They are friends that you can rely on no matter what. But the lack of emotional experience they create is often a protective mechanism that they might not be fully aware exists. They are often very worried about hurting other people's feelings, prone to avoiding risk and conflict, and as a result, can come across forgettable. These people often frustratingly find themselves in connections that lack any kind of spark despite their best efforts.

 

Lastly, Positive AP. People are naturally pulled toward these individuals. It's rewarding to be around them. They often radiate happiness, confidence, warmth, or joy - and as a result, are in constant demand. This doesn't mean that those with Positive AP spend all their time forcing themselves to be happy. The opposite is more often the case - these individuals are deeply familiar with their darker emotions, but more importantly, they know how to process them to completion. The end result is magnetic, no matter how someone is feeling - spending any amount of time with this individual leaves others feeling hopeful, alive, and craving more.

 

Here's what no one ever told me about affective presence...

Since AP and charisma are directly linked, your AP affects every interaction with people.

 

Every time someone is deciding whether to say yes or no to you, your AP is the final word.

And it affects everything from your ability to find an amazing romance to your annual earning potential.

Everything we have access to in life, comes directly from others - and affective presence is what makes people say "yes" to you.

But in order to learn it, some folks claim you need to talk to 10,000 strangers on the streets...

Or get painfully rejected by attractive women for years...

Or read books every week from every self-proclaimed guru under the sun - until one day it somehow "clicks"??

And while there's some merit to the first two ideas (the 3rd is garbage)...

You don't actually need to do any of that to skyrocket your AP.

After over 600 sessions teaching this to clients (and deeply learning it for myself), I've refined it down to a simple process.

 

The Black Mirror Method (BMM).

I've had clients use BMM to not only find their dream partners, but take what learned and build their own relationship coaching businesses.

It's high grade, industrial strength stuff.

But before we go into that...

Who is the Black Mirror Method is for...?

This method was designed for people who care deeply about other people.

I'm talking about the folks who have spent their entire lives just looking for that brief spark of meaningful connection.

The people who crave companionship, tender physical touch, lust, and love - the whole messy, delicious shebang...but often find this is just out of reach - locked behind a wall of fear.

This is for the people who find themselves paralyzed, feeling stuck, wanting to make a change.

 

But having tried nearly everything, still find themselves feeling "not good enough", cold, and alone.

If you've tried "fake it til you make it" and know it doesn't work.

 

If you're tired of putting on the mask of false positivity & avoiding making waves because the world expects you to be polite and quiet...

If you believe you have Negative or Neutral Affective Presence and you're ready to not only learn to change it, but actually take strong action to do so...

I wrote a guide for people like you.

It's 120 pages - and by the end of reading it, you will have tools, exercises, and a complete blueprint on how to get a massively positive AP without sacrificing who you really are. 

Important.
The guide is NOT for the following people.

  • You've been so deeply hurt by past relationships that you currently hate women or men and aren't ready to move from that stance.
     

  • You want a new way to manipulate someone into liking you.

    In which case, fuck off. There are too many in the world like you already. I'm not training you.

     

  • You believe you can learn to be more persuasive by learning to fake your tonality, body language, and micro expressions - and are only interested in doing these things.

    It's not that kind of book and never will be. You will learn to correct your non verbal communication without needing to fake anything.

     

  • You regularly buy books and don't finish them and know you will do so with this one.

    If you cannot make a firm commitment to finish this book, then I don't want you spending money on it.

     

  • You rarely take action on the things you learn.

    New action leads to new results. If you don't act on new information, nothing changes.

You might be thinking that a book like this would be expensive. And the truth is, it should be.

For reasons I will explain, it's not.

The information inside this book is something people have paid upwards of $2,700 for, because it works.

 

But there are a lot of hurting people out there. People who are desperate to find something to ease to pain of disconnection.

And I want to be there for those people. I know how dark it gets. I hated spending time there and I would have given everything I had in the bank just to feel a little less empty.

But not everyone has access to $2,700 off the cuff. I know that, too.

So I've done everything I can to make this book affordable to everyone.

This book isn't $1,000.

$100
or even $20.

Fact is, if you skip getting coffee for one day, it'll more than pay for this book.

 

You can grab your copy for just $5.

 

But before you do that, I need a commitment from you.

I'm hoping to change your life in a deep and profound way.

 

And if you made it this far, I think you're probably wanting to do the same.

 

So if you're going to pick up this book, I want you to commit to yourself that you're going to read it cover to cover.

 

Like I'm there in the room with you, giving you a one-0n-one session.

Take on the challenges in earnest.

 

Then, when you've stacked your calendar with more dates than you can reasonably handle.

Or you've spoken with your boss and gotten a 30% raise...

Or negotiated that next deal exactly the way you wanted it....

Know in your heart of hearts that you owe me a burrito the next time we meet.

That's the deal. If that's something you're into, you can grab your book by clicking the button below.

-R