THE ONE THING THAT UNLOCKS SOCIAL SUPER POWERS IN QUIET, THOUGHTFUL GUYS
IT'S CALLED 'EMOTIONAL INFLUENCE'...
So first, why are we talking about emotions, at all? After all guys aren't supposed to feel things! That's for folks with ovaries.
I'm with you. I used to feel the same way before I understood how that mindset completely crippled me, socially. It was like trying to win a street fight with just one leg.
So to better answer that question we need to understand a little-known phenomenon that scientists stumbled into in the 60s...
In short, "many psychological scientists now assume that emotions are the dominant driver of most meaningful decisions in life [...] emotion and decision making go hand in hand"
- "Emotions and Decision Making" (Harvard, Carnegie Mellon, et. al)
Put another way, human beings do not use logic to make decisions about who we date, have sex with, fall in love with, or choose to give our money to.
And those who lack emotional influence, that is, the ability to impact another person's emotions - do not get chosen. Unfortunately, that's especially true for "most meaningful decisions" i.e. big opportunities and milestone events in life.
But because the vast majority of folks are asleep at the wheel when it comes to this fact, it's become an extremely unfair advantage for those of us who know how to use it. There is next to no competition.
A few years ago, I accidentally cracked the social influence code at a business seminar in Austin, Texas. It felt like I was the first human to discover fire. I remember almost crying. Here was the thing I had been desperately searching for - for the past 15 years... and I could have been doing this the ENTIRE TIME?? I was ashamed of having been SO dumb, overjoyed and confused all at the same time. I finally had the key.
The first thing I did was teach it to a few friends.
The first went from being homeless to earning more money than me in the span of a few months. Every 30 days or so, I get pictures of him and a new stunning woman he's dating. It's infuriating.
The second, went on a date and shacked up with a woman he's very attracted to. He's now happily in a long term relationship with her and getting ready to propose.
The third went from an unhappy relationship that was filled with constant bickering and turned it completely around. They now own a cat together and can't keep their hands off each other.
Despite how effective it is, I've yet to see anyone teach social influence the way it was meant to be taught.
Just like how reading a book driving a car doesn't actually prepare you for driving. Emotional influence isn't something that can be learned from a book or some pre-recorded online course.
It must be acquired, and forged in a social situation with someone who knows what they're doing.
Once it clicks, just like driving, it is a skill that will stay with you for the rest of your life. Folks with high emotional influence occur as charismatic, charming, and irresistibly interesting to women and men, alike.
"Emotions are critical to everything a leader must do: build trust, strengthen relationships, set a vision, focus energy, get people moving, make tradeoffs, make tough decisions, and learn from failure. Without genuine emotion these things always fall flat and stall."
- Harvard Business Review
Once I cracked the code, it didn't take me long to rapidly bring my emotional fitness above 98% of men - not only was it easier than expected, it made me more attractive than I could have ever hoped.
I'm now on a mission to bring this same unfair advantage to thoughtful, kind, introverted men. The kind of men who are usually overlooked, ignored, or passed up when it comes time for promotion or romance.
If that's something you're interested in, too.
The next step is to answer a few questions anonymously so that I can gift you a complimentary session. In that session, we'll get deep into what's going wrong, what kind of results you want, and how to make achieving that inevitable.
You will leave our conversation with a full blueprint of how to unleash your own emotional influence and resources that will expedite the process.
This is NOT for the pathetic excuses for men who try to cheat, manipulate, or lie their way into a relationship or sale.
This is NOT for the assholes who think they can use this skill to take advantage of others or hurt other people so they can get their way.
This is NOT for guys who make excuses to not do the work and blame other people when they fail.
If that's you, get the fuck off the page. I don't want to help you.
If you're not one of the above, then you're one of us. Let's get you into the fold so you can get started on building you the kind of social super powers most people can only dream of having.
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